Scripture: “A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another” (John 13:34-35 KJV).

I’ve often wondered at the difference between Judas and Peter, both guilty of terrible failure. Yet Judas’s very name became a symbol of deceit and betrayal, while Christian history remembers Peter as a great leader, teacher, and martyr for his Lord.

In “Salome,” I portrayed Judas as a man who did not enjoy the company of the other disciples and whose arrogance prevented him from close relationships. On the other hand, Peter—even in the depths of his grief—sought the company of his friends. Perhaps they repeated to him Jesus’ words from the cross, “Forgive them, for they know not what they do.”

God designed us to be social. We need to cultivate this part of our nature. When we are distraught, confused, or need comfort, we need friends to remind us of His promises. Christianity, I believe, is incomplete without this community. The cross itself shows the pattern: Reach upward to God and outward to others. The two Great Commandments echo this design. “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength. . . And love your neighbor as yourself.”

Prayer: Father, Your greatest gift to us is the companionship of friends and family. May I appreciate and honor each one and reach out to them in selfless love. Amen.